road to become a lady part 1- build self-confidence

i found really nice article about how to become a lady. Lady ? yes, lady without gaga :D so btw,  I got an idea, super idea. i am thinking to become a lady. i think it is the time, just before my 24. i talked about lady, but what is lady anyway? based on answer.com, lady is

  • A well-mannered and considerate woman with high standards of proper behave
  • A well-behaved young girl.

well, the key is well-behaved. and also obviously lady is having strong attractive aura. how can we be well-behaved woman and be an attractive one ? first and very important key is Self Confidence. are you with me ?

Self confidence.. what can I say about this part ? actually i am having a problem tough.. I browsed several homepage and i got very nice article about How To Build Self confidence(source : http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence).  I’ll put the points only

  1. know and accept your weakness, your insecurities, your problem
  2. solve them by having talk with friends, someone who close to you
  3. find your good points
  4. Be thankful, be positive
  5. avoid perfectionism
when you think you can handle something it right, positive aura is around you and giving unseen power to you. but if you think you are not good in that, feel like you will do mistakes even you haven’t started it, failure just right in front of you. or simply way, without confidence, we cant do it right. how can we be an attractive one then?
self confidence crisis still be my first problem when i am inside a new environment. yeah by the way, i have to handle it. i wanna become a lady. at least by knowing  my first challenge i have something to prepare for becoming a lady.
my answer for this challenge is study hard and open my eyes wider by books.
yosh! lets do this!
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